Ich bin ein 18-jähriger Hase (Fan der Kpop-Newjeans) und ich bin sehr aktiv in der App Spaß an Moka (20) und Iroha (16), weil ich Japaner bin. Natürlich schickte ihnen jemand aus Japan sofort Nachrichten, in denen er sagte, wie verletzt und angewidert ich von ihrem Beitrag bin und wie sie Japaner sehen. Aber sie sagten nur, dass ich so sensibel bin und mit der Wahrheit einfach nicht umgehen kann. Das hat mich zum Weinen gebracht, weil ich nicht glauben kann, dass Leute, die ich online als Freunde betrachtete, mich auch so sehen würden.
Jetzt frage ich: Sind meine Gefühle gültig oder bin ich nur sensibel?
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6 Comments
stop being terminally online
Don’t worry about them. People who stand kpop on that level to make nasty comments have some kind of 病気. They aren’t your friends. Your real friends won’t say such things.
No you aren’t sensitive. They are just bad people. I’m sorry you experienced that kpop fandom toxicity.
There is an entire world out there not on the internet. There are neighbors, animals, workers, nature, mountains, oceans, boats, planes, and all manner of things in the universe. While your emotions are yours. Feel what you feel and your feelings are valid… how you let it affect you and your life is your choice. Go take a walk and say hello to people. Enjoy feeling wind on your face. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.
As a native Korean, I know their mentality very well. Korean people are brainwashed to hate everything about Japan from very young ages. That is how Korean society works unfortunately. My generation or younger ones tend to have less hatred to Japan than elder generations, but still there are so many people on the internet who wants to showcase how much they hate Japan everyday. It is totally ridiculous.
In Korea, saying something bad about Japan in public is considered to be patriotic + someone with 常識
Don’t get one guyed by people on Twitter. Literally anyone can say shit there and will offend someone some way or the other.
Never engage with it because they will beat you with experience.
You’re young, you will learn how to filter.